Saying No and Keeping the Relationship
I once spent three weeks staring at a blinking cursor, paralyzed by an email from a former client asking for a “quick” developmental edit on a 60,000-word manuscript for a fee that wouldn’t cover my heating bill. I was terrified that if I didn’t say yes, I’d be blacklisted, or worse, forgotten. Most of the advice you’ll find online about how to decline work politely is written by people who have never actually had to balance a freelance invoice against a dwindling savings account; they tell you to use “soft language” and “sandwich” your rejection between compliments. That’s not strategy,…